I’m just wondering why you would jump into a new relationship after a breakup? I’m talking about within weeks? Especially if you dated someone for a year or more.
That happens a lot and I think to myself the same question.
I think it is because people are so used to having someone with them, depending on someone, having someone to call whenever you need them, and having someone to make them feel special, that they think that jumping into a new relationship is going to fill the new gap that has been made by losing their partner.
This could actually have the reverse effect because chances are, they arent ready to completely move on. They didnt take the time to heal and just enjoy themselves.
It is a way that confuses me very much. If me and my partner broke up, I know that i would not be fully ready to try on a new relationship in a few weeks. i would miss having my best friend and lover, yes, but i wouldnt try to replace them after a couple weeks.