What are the Benefits of Being a Virgin until you Fall in Love or Marriage?

May 1, 2010 - 5:05 pm 12 Comments

What are the Benefits of Being a Virgin until you Fall in Love or Marriage?
What are benefit’s of Waiting to have Sex with Some one you Love or Marriage, Instead of just having a One Night Stand? I’m 18 I plan on being a Virgin until Marriage. Hopefully After College I can find the "one" girl for me?

Girls won’t feel intimidated knowing you’ve screwed at least five of their sex counterparts..?

It also makes girls feel a little more at ease knowing you never had sex. That way she can teach you what she knows.

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12 Responses to “What are the Benefits of Being a Virgin until you Fall in Love or Marriage?”

  1. AyanKiE Says:

    Girls won’t feel intimidated knowing you’ve screwed at least five of their sex counterparts..?

    It also makes girls feel a little more at ease knowing you never had sex. That way she can teach you what she knows.
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  2. chaminda l Says:

    Im 26, a guy and a virgin and prefer to wait until marriage. One night stands many times just leads to plain sex with no emotion. Lovemaking you have intimacy between people who love each other.

    Most of society falls into peer pressure and many, not all, people who have lost their virginity are jealous of those who refuse to give in.

    However losing your virginity to someone you love before marriage is not a problem.
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  3. Aloishus W Says:

    Jason, bro… don’t front. If you had the option, you’d trade your v-card for a sweaty romp with a wildebeast.
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    Virginity is a freaking myth.

  4. David JLW Says:

    It’s the best. Wait until marriage if you can, that is a great gift to give your new bride. If you don’t, be TRULY in love with her first. You want it to be special. I was the latter (not married yet) and I don’t regret being in love first.
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  5. liz Says:

    Good for you, not many virgins around at the moment are there. You will benefit by not sleeping around and putting yourself at risk with diseases, not getting a girl pregnant (no contraception is 100%), you will benefit also by not getting into emotional entanglement which in itself can cause a lot of heartache.
    Would you prefer your future wife to be a virgin as well so that you can discover sex together or would you be ok marrying a girl that has slept around for years with random guys and everyone she has dated?
    The choice is yours, in this world today its all about choice.
    Make the right one and stand by your values, morals and feelings.
    Good for you.
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  6. ??..Baby Love..?? Says:

    have sex,,ur a guy! am waiting till u find my mr right..but definitely not till marriage..good luck..xx
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  7. jmdacosta07 Says:

    i think its awesome that u are still a virgin…i wish i was….there are 2 really big benefits that come to my mind right now…number 1 u won’t get a grl pregnant and number 2 u wont get an std….those 2 alone are a good enough reason….i lost my virginity at 18 and now wish i wouldn’t have….i have a 3 yr old son whom i love, but i’m only 22 and now my whole life is my son….i haven’t even been to the movies in years….n e ways just keep doing what ur doing and wait….
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  8. Anonymous Me Says:

    Well first of all, it will be WAY more special :) Sex without love for the person is just not how it’s meant to work! Plus think of how awesome it will be if both you and your spouse are the only people you ever share that intimacy with! Secondly, sex produces emotions obviously, and if you have sex with someone who leaves you after a few weeks, it will be devastating if you still love them. Here, marriage helps reduce that chance, however it is still possible though less likely. Thirdly, makes life less complicated! Sex outside of a serious relationship just complicates things! And then there’s always the chance of std’s or a kid…

    Hope that helped :)
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    Fellow vigin waiting until marriage :)

  9. speedy Says:

    Well it should mean some thing. It shows you have morals, virtue and are disciplined. Say I was a 20 or so guy and met a beautiful woman. We fall in love and get married, or close to it. And she tells me she is a virgin and waited till this moment. I would feel so special. Now take it the other route. We fall in love and get married or close to it and I find out she has been with a lot of guys.. WOW bumber what a let down. Especially if I had waited for this moment. Kind of says " You are not that special to me " Plus any one can go out and have a one night stand, not every one can look their newlywed husband/wife in the eyes and say " I saved my self for you. " Good luck. It is your life, your body and your choice.
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  10. Ruby Noveana Says:

    You know everyone tends to put so much into having sex before you are married. It is not really a good idea. Having sex before you are married causes a whole lot of problems. It tends to open you up to all sorts of STD’s, AIDS, etc. It is also giving a piece of yourself to someone you are not joined to. You tend to be used or are using the girl you are sleeping with. You tend to be known as a "dog" for having sex with so many instead of "pure" and composed for waiting. When you truly find the right girl and wait, the sex will be astounding and that girl will really appreciate the fact that you waited. A lot of females these days would rather wait, but they have not had the opportunity because they have been violated and their virginity was taken from them at an early age, so they fill their voids with men who could care less. I think it is amazing and really wonderful that you really are going to wait and stay a virgin. Take it from someone who wishes that had the chance to stay a virgin. It is so worth the wait. Good luck and don’t allow peer pressure to influence you in any way.
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    http://www.ourchurch.com/member/u/unlmtdcrtvecorp/

  11. Hinata Prime Says:

    It is important not to have premarital sex. Some reasons are listed in the cohabitation article linked here:
    http://perfectlove.ning.com/video/affairproof-your-relationship
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    http://perfectlove.ning.com/video/affairproof-your-relationship

  12. Sas Says:

    It’s the best gift you can give your spouse. Plus, you don’t have to worry about STD’s, getting a girl pregnant, emotional baggage. I wish there were more guys like you out there. So many guys nowadays are pigs, whom I try to avoid. I’m also waiting.
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    a proud virgin

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